Amit
Kohli
Mrs.
Hudak
American
Literature
13
May 2014
College Essay
I can still remember what my friend
had told me in the gym in the spring of my sophomore year. I blew off what he
said to me at the time, thinking he was kidding, but little did I know about
the harsh and unfair reality I would have to face in my junior year. My friend,
who’s a member of the basketball team told me that they had a meeting with
their coach and the coach told the team that next year you wouldn’t be allowed
to play two sports in one season. The reason this became a huge worry for me is
because I had played soccer and tennis in the same season for my school that
year, so if what the basketball coach said was true, I would have to choose
either soccer or tennis and give up the other one. The reason this would be so
difficult for me is because I take pride and have a passion in playing both
sports and I’ve been playing both for the majority of my life. Before playing
soccer my sophomore year, I hadn’t played in a couple years, so when I started
to play again while I was playing tennis, it turned out to be one of the best
times of my life. Plus, tennis is more of an individual sport, so playing
soccer was a great way to be a part of something that requires more teamwork.
Towards the end of my sophomore year, the athletic director held a
meeting with the upper school student athletes to inform us about how a new
rule was going to be made that would not allow athletes to play more than one
sport in the same season. At first I was extremely saddened and disappointed,
but I then decided that I was going to stand up for myself and do whatever I
could to get this rule changed or altered. I knew that if the actions I planned
on taking wouldn’t bring success; I wouldn’t be able to play soccer because tennis
was my primary sport.
I knew that my only chance of
getting the rule changed would be by holding meetings with the higher ranking
officials in the school, such as the headmaster head of administration, or the
principal of the high school to persuade them to change the ruling or at the
least, let me play.
At the time I thought that they
would at least let me play because that year I sat down with the coach of the
soccer team and tennis team and the head of the athletic department and there
was an agreement amongst all of us that it would be fine for me to play both
sports in the same season. There was also never any issue with either team and
my teammates of each team supported me, so I thought this would help persuade
them to let me play.
In my junior year, I had a few
meetings with the headmaster and the principal of the upper school to express
my thoughts and beliefs on why I should be able to play soccer and tennis in the
same season. To me, the situation felt like it was me versus the school, so I
knew it was going to be difficult to swat them to my side. Even though I knew
my argument was better than theirs, it seemed to me like they were unwilling
and uncompromising to make any changes because they didn’t want to admit that
they were wrong with making the rule. Personally, I fell like the actions I
took helped me grow to be a more mature and audacious individual because thru
this experience I learned quite a few lessons that I feel like will be valuable
to me later in life.
With all the effort and time I put
in to try and play soccer and tennis, my efforts ended up being unsuccessful.
Even though this was most likely the worst failure I ever had to endure, I
still think that everything I did was worth the effort and I would make the
same decisions again. I also believe that some good came out of this situation
by standing up for myself and fighting for something that I believe in because
I ended up learning quite a few essential lessons from my failure.
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